I have never been un-invited from somewhere, never before now that is.
I understand the reason and know that in a roundabout way I brought it on myself. I knew, without a doubt, that my actions of last week would result in the loss of something I’ve come to hold quite dear… friendship is never an easy thing to part with.
I never expected that a friend would choose a friend over a partner and I knew that being the one to bring to light to a certain situation would put me on the outer, but I believe that I did the right thing.
In the same way, I know that my friend’s decision is the right thing for him, he needs to do what will make him the most happy in life. I can only give him one piece of advise.
Restore to your partner unconditional love… don’t feel that he has to prove himself to you before it can return. Believe in him wholly. If you’re going to survive as a couple you can not do it with distrust. He has told you everything and you believe it to be so, there are no more secrets, trust should be restored.
It is apparent now that we won’t see you guys as much, but I still wish to visit vicarously via your blog, so keep it up, I’ll be watching. And of course commenting… I’m never short of an opinion.
Edit 200607192314: Okay so maybe it sounded a little too final… and I didn’t want that. I’m very very happy to remain friends because as I said above I cherish the friendship we formed and would miss it more than a little if it were to go away.